吵架的时候…

前天去和嫂嫂还有孩子们约在牛车水见。在等候他们的期中决定去吃点点心。听到隔壁桌有人在吵架。女的虽然很生气,可是还是很冷静的把想说的话表达出来。男的就有时会回一两句让后很快就被那女的打断。就让我想起自己在生气吵架的模样; 气到爆根本没办法把自己所要说的话清楚的表达出来。跟这女的没得比。我想了一想,其实我就应该学她那样冷静。冷静不代表脆弱,冷静是一种武器,也可以算是一名学问,须要某些讲究程度的学问。

Excerpts from Susan Cain’s Quiet which I found very relevant to this encounter:

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